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Replacing Guilt

Replacing Guilt

Mar 02, 2022 by So8res

My goal is to help people remove guilt-based motivation entirely, and replace it with intrinsic motivation. I'm aiming to both reduce the frequency of Netflix binges and reduce the bad feelings that follow. I'm aiming to help people feel like they're still worthwhile human beings if they stop working before they literally drop.

A sequence about replacing guilt with other feelings and finding better ways to self-motivate, so that you can build a better future without falling apart in the process.

When all is said and done, Nature will not judge us by our actions; we will be measured only by what actually happens. Our goal, in the end, is to ensure that the timeless history of our universe is one that is filled with whatever it is we're fighting for. For me, at least, this is the underlying driver that takes the place of guilt: Once we have learned our lessons from the past, there is no reason to wrack ourselves with guilt. All we need to do, in any given moment, is look upon the actions available to us, consider, and take whichever one seems most likely to lead to a future full of light.

Originally posted on Minding Our Way. There's also an official audio version.

Preliminaries
16Half-assing it with everything you've got
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3Failing with abandon
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Fighting for something
3Replacing guilt
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6The Stamp Collector
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4You're allowed to fight for something
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3Caring about something larger than yourself
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4You don't get to know what you're fighting for
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Drop your obligations
4"Should" considered harmful
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4Not because you "should"
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7Your "shoulds" are not a duty
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Half monkey, half god
3Working yourself ragged is not a virtue
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2Rest in motion
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4Shifting guilt
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5Don't steer with guilt
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6Update from the suckerpunch
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3Be a new homunculus
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4Not yet gods
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4Where coulds go
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3Self compassion
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3There are no "bad people"
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3Residing in the mortal realm
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The dark world
3Being unable to despair
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0See the dark world
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3Choose without suffering
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8Detach the grim-o-meter
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4Simply locate yourself
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3Have no excuses
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3Come to your terms
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3Transmute guilt into resolve
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3The best you can
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4Dark, not colorless
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Fire within
10Stop trying to try and try
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4There is no try
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4Obvious advice
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3The art of response
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5Confidence all the way up
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3Desperation
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3Recklessness
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4Defiance
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6How we will be measured
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Related
27On Caring
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5The Value of a Life
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3Moving towards the goal
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3Self-signaling the ability to do what you want
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3Productivity through self-loyalty
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4Conclusion of the Replacing Guilt series
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